Having A Friend Marry You
Your friend cannot legally marry you in Australia unless they are an authorised marriage celebrant.
For most couples, the easiest answer is not to turn the friend into a celebrant. It is to separate the legal marriage from the personal celebration.
The simple option
We do the legal marriage with our paperwork-only service.
Then your friend can lead a symbolic celebration:
- later that day
- on another day
- overseas
- in whatever style you want
Why couples choose this
- it is faster
- it is cheaper
- it avoids celebrant training and registration
- your friend can focus on the personal part
- we keep the legal part simple
Important clarification
If your friend leads a ceremony before the legal marriage, that ceremony is symbolic only. You are not legally married until the authorised celebrant solemnises the marriage.
If you want a full wedding with a friend involved
If you want help structuring a bigger ceremony around a friend’s involvement, a full-service celebrant is the better fit. See Josh Withers.
Best next step
If you just want the legal marriage handled simply, use Get Married.
Ready to get married?
Book the paperwork-only service
Click the Get Married link, fill out the booking form, and pay the fee. Then prepare your NOIM with NOIM Easy , have it witnessed by an authorised witness, and send it in. We confirm the date, time, and place once the paperwork is received and we know what we have available.
Want more than paperwork? For an elopement, visit Elopement Collective . For a full ceremony, visit Josh Withers .